Saturday, 1 March 2014

Why Sex After Marriage Sucks - Part 1

#1 Some Like Whips, Others Like Chains

When different sexual tastes collide or evolve at different paces between two married people, the result can be incompatibility between the partners. A sex life with puzzle pieces that don't fit is a recipe for a crumbling marriage.

#2 People are Critical

Statistics have shown that most people settle for a partner they do not necessarily see as right for them because they want to avoid dying alone. If you tie the knot with someone you are not too hot about, expect the sex life to go South quickly.

#3 Viagra and Cialis can Save Marriages

Believe it or not, erectile dysfunction is a fairly common problem among aging males, and it is a huge reason for marital unhappiness when a woman begins to feel like it may be her fault that her man's junk goes into a funk.

#4 Attraction is a Downward Slope

Research tells us that twenty percent of married couples get intimate in the bedroom 10 times a year or fewer, and once you reach such low levels of sex count it is nearly impossible to get the passion back. Say Sayonara, love life.

#5 Menopause Gives Men Pause

Almost half of women who file for a divorce do so during the years they are experiencing menopause, and there is no denying this can be a miserable time for everyone. Sex drive goes down, anger goes up.

#6 Ever Seen the Show Cheaters?

Cheating has been around ever since Adam and Eve plucked the forbidden fruit, and with the evolution of social media like Twitter and Facebook it has become easier and more prevalent than ever. And when someone gets caught, the trust can be gone forever.

#7 Kids Can Be a Headache

Having a child is the ultimate game changer when it comes to a marriage. Most of us have seen Teen Mom and have seen just how quick Daddy can bolt when the baby won't stop crying and suddenly Mom doesn't have the libido she did before giving birth.

#8 It Doesn't Have to Suck

Not all marriages are doomed, and not every husband or wife indulges the temptation to cheat. If you mix it up, occasionally bow to your partners wishes, and raise your kids right then you've got a good shot at a long, productive life in the bedroom. Don't forget to take out the Kama Sutra once in a while.

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